It was one of the best moments in my life when I discovered how to employ the Key to Happiness. Until that time I had never known that I had been carrying the key around inside me for all of my life.
Most people apparently think that happiness is the result of something that happens to them. Perhaps happiness for them is having serious money, so they think that they need to win the lottery in order to feel happy. Or it could be that happiness is having a loving partner, so they believe that they must find such a partner who is somewhere out there in the world. Or perhaps happiness is being free, so they must discover a way to be free themselves from the constrictions of having to go to work.
But from our NLP training we know that none of this is right. Happiness is already inside of you and once you start to broadcast your own happiness to the world around you, the world mirrors happiness back to you in whatever form you want.
You have likely spotted that when you smile others often smile back at you. This is true, try it. The same point is true of happiness, if you radiate it out to the world around you it sends it back.
Hence if you’re looking for a partner to make you happy, smile at any likely candidates who you come into contact with. And make certain you give them a big, full beam smile full of happiness. You will be surprised by how many possible partners smile back at you.
Smiling makes you much more approachable.
Smiling is a signal that you’re feeling inner happiness. The more that you smile the greater the happiness you’ll feel and the happier you’ll make others feel. And when you make other people feel happy they will make you feel happy.
The vital point is that you must make up your mind that you want to feel happy, and then smile to make everybody else understand exactly how you feel. The secret is to “act as if” you’re feeling happy and soon you will find that you do feel happy.
Imagine a precision instrument that records the actions, words and feelings of the best performers. Then download that data to a powerful decoder that analyses and codes the behaviour. Transfer the code to your personal control panel so that you can reproduce excellence at will. This is how NLP Techniques work. NLP Practitioner David Ferrers will show you how to build your own control panel during Business Coaching, or at one of his NLP Training workshops or during NLP Practitioner Training in India.